What kind of car did
dad pick out to drive the family to Church?
Honda, because he read
in Acts 2:1, they were all in one accord.
Why did grandpa keep
his eyes open when he prayed.
Because the Bible says,
“Watch and pray” Mt. 26:41.
Where do you keep all
your dad jokes?
In the dadabase of
course.
Okay, enough of the obligatory
Father’s Day dad jokes.
If you want to find a good parking spot and the best
seat in the House of God, Father’s Day is the best day to go to Church.
Statistics say, Father’s Day, is the least attended Church
service all year.
Mother’s Day, on the other hand, is one of the most
attended services all year, only behind Christmas and Easter.
Which is interesting because statistics show:
If a father attends Church regularly, regardless of
what the mother does, between 66-75% of their children attend Church as adults.
If a father does not go to Church, even if his wife
does, only 2% (1 child in 50) will become a regular worshiper as adults.
Another study, focused on Sunday School, found similar
results on the impact of fathers:
- When
both parents attend Bible study in addition to the Sunday service, 72% of
their children attend Sunday school when grown.
- When
only the father attends Sunday school, 55% of the children attend when
grown.
- When
only the mother attends Sunday school, 15% of the children attend when
grown.
- When
neither parent attends Sunday school, only 6% of the children attend when
grown.
Proverbs
22:6
Train
up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from
it.
Charles Spurgeon said it like this: Train up a child
in the way he should go—but be sure you go that way yourself.
Another survey found that if a child is the
first person in a household to become a Christian, there is a 3.5% probability
everyone else in the household will follow. If the mother is the first
to become a Christian, there is a 17% probability everyone else in the
household will follow. However, when the father is first, there is a
93% probability everyone else in the household will follow.
90% of homeless, and run away children, come from fatherless
homes.
85% of behavioral disorders in children are from
fatherless homes.
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes.
71% of teen pregnancies are from fatherless homes.
85% of youth in prison are from fatherless homes.
Children from fatherless homes are:
Four times more likely to live in poverty.
Ten times more likely to use drugs.
14 times more likely to commit rape.
32 times more likely to run away.
Dad’s, don’t get a big head, but you’re a big deal.
You make a big difference, for better or worse, as evidenced by statistics.
You’re made in the image of God, like everybody, but
becoming a father, is the biggest promotion of your life.
God created family. He set it up with the father as
the head. (1 Corinthians 11:3, Ephesians 5:23, 6:4, 1 Timothy 3:4-5).
The job of a father is to reflect The
Father.
For God so loved the world that He gave...
John 3:16.
Ephesians 5:25. Husbands love your wives
as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself...
Characteristics of a father: loving, giving, selfless.
A giver, not a taker. A fountain, not a drain. John 4:14, 7:38.
Being a father bears the responsibility of allowing The Father to flow through you as, provider, protector, leader, teacher, helper, encourager, and friend. (Psalm 127, Proverbs 13:22, 1 Tim. 3:4-5, 5:8, Eph. 6:4).
A large part of being a father, is showing up.
It’s a big job.
But you can handle it because God can.
Philippians
2:13
For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His
good pleasure.
Philippians
4:13
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Galatians
2:20
I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless, I live; yet not I, but Christ lives
in me: and the life I live in the flesh I live by faith of the Son of God,
who loves me, and gave Himself for me.
The roles change quickly as we grow older.
Don’t blink, they grow fast.
Grandpas, you are a lighthouse.
You’re not retired from fatherhood you’re promoted to a
father of fathers.
The kids and grandkids are living life, out there
having fun in the sun, dancing high from wave to wave.
You’re boring like a tree, rooted, grounded, planted. Just
steadfast, stable, standing, on the shore. Not going anywhere. Easy to ignore.
They’re out having fun, chasing dreams, living large
and laughing loud, sailing carefree from shore to shore. (Just like you used to
do).
But night falls, storms rise, waves they once danced
with, threaten to sink them. They have no idea what to do or which way to turn.
It’s then, like the light of a lighthouse, through the
wind and the rain and the waves, your prayers pierce the darkness, your
words finally hit home, and they lift their eyes, and see the Light, and find
their way Home.
STAND Grandpa.
SHINE on Papa.
Let your light so shine that they see and glorify your
Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16.
Don’t you dare think you’re out of the fight.
If you’re still breathing, God’s got a reason.
Grab grandma’s hand if you can and pray.
Even if you’ve never done it, it’s not too late. Start
today.
You have a calling. You have a position.
Your family, your neighborhood, your Church, your
nation, need you.
Rise! Shine!
Be that shining beacon God’s called you to be.
Don’t worry about your weakness. Give the Father
your past, mistakes, regrets, failures, wasted years.
Give it all to Him and watch how it turns it into wisdom
from above.
It’s not too late for you to finish strong and finish
well.
Yeah Doug, easier said than done. I’ve burned too many
bridges with my kids. Those relationships are too far gone.
Doesn’t matter. Don’t try to figure it out. That’s
your Father’s job.
If you’re hearing this message God is offering you a
mission.
Everybody needs a father.
Be one.
Trust Him for Divine Direction and Connection.
Knowing nothing is impossible with God.
He is a Father to the fatherless, a
defender of widows and sets the lonely in families. Psalm 68:5-6b.
Speaking of Divine Direction and Connection.
Deland McCullough was adopted as a baby, into a two-parent
home, but his adoptive father left when he was only two.
So, Deland was raised by a single mom, in Youngstown Ohio.
After a knee injury ended Sherman Smith’s NFL playing career,
he wound up coaching at Miami University (Oxford Ohio).
He recruited 17-year-old Deland McCullough from high
school to join Miami U as a running back.
Coach Sherman took Deland under his wing and became
more than a coach; he became a mentor, a father figure, a friend.
That’s why it was so sad when Coach Sherman moved away
for another coaching position, nevertheless, they kept in touch.
Deland stayed the course and had a successful football
career at Miami University, then went on to the pros, until, like Sherman, a
knee injury ended his playing career. He also went into coaching. Currently he’s
running back coach for Oklahoma Sooners.
In 2017, when Deland was 44, he connected with his
birth mother. He found out she was only 16 years old when she had him and gave
him up for adoption so he could have a better life.
When he asked about his dad, she said he was someone
she dated a little while in high school, but he never found out she was
pregnant. His name was Sherman Smith.
The very same Coach Sherman Smith that had been more
than a coach to Deland, he was a mentor, father figure and friend.
WOW!
He
is a Father to the fatherless, a defender of widows and sets the lonely in
families. Psalm 68:5-6b
Deland and Sherman, knew that God orchestrated their Divine
connection, but they had a DNA test done, just for documentation. It was a 99.9%
match.
Over the years Deland had gone to Coach Sherman’s
multiple times, but then he went for the first time, to Dad Sherman’s.
When Deland’s dad, opened the door, he simply smiled,
invited him in, and said the two words Deland longed his whole life to hear
from his dad...
“My son.”
1
John 3:1
Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be
called children of God!
Dear Fathers, we all have the same top line on our
family tree.
Adam was the son of God. Luke 3:38.
You have a Good Good Father.
Your Source is Him.
Thus, you lack nothing.
In Him, you have everything you need for life and
Godliness. (2 Peter 1:3).
You have a calling, a position, a mission.
Seek Him with all you’ve got.
Stay the course, do not quit, and you will not fail.
(Galatians 6:9).
Fathers, rise. Allow the Father and Fountain of Living
Waters flow through you. (John 4:14, 7:38).
Father of fathers, shine. Let the Father of Lights
shine through you. (Matthew 5:16).
Fathers, stand united, under the one banner of our
Father, encourage, and pray and hold each other accountable.
Let’s pray.
Heavenly Father, thank You for the honor
of being Your children. We love and honor You. Please flow through us, and
shine through us, so all those You’ve given us, will be drawn to You and hear You
say, “My child, well done.”
Thank You.
We love You, forever.
Amen.
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