Where do wars and fights come from among you? Do they not come
from your desires for pleasure that war in your members? 2 You lust
and do not have. You murder and covet and cannot obtain. You fight and war. Yet
you do not have because you do not ask. 3 You ask and do not
receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures. 4
Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is
enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes
himself an enemy of God. 5 Or do you think that the Scripture says
in vain, “The Spirit who dwells in us yearns jealously”?
6 But He
gives more grace. Therefore He says:
“God resists the proud,
But gives grace to the humble.”
Where
do wars and fights come from among you?
What wars? What fights? There were lots to choose from
back then. And today.
James is not talking about the continuous conflict
between Jews and Romans.
Nor is he addressing religious wranglings of the
Pharisees and Sadducees.
We’re not referring to wars against Islamic
terrorists, or LGBTQ wickedness, or political fights of the left and right.
What we are looking at is those who sit in the pew.
This is about me and you. Christians.
Dear Church, where do wars and fights come
from among you?
Context is king, so let’s back up a few verses to a question
that kicks off this conversation.
James
3:13-18
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good
conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom.
14 But
if you have bitter envy
and self-seeking in your hearts, do not
boast and lie against the truth. 15 This wisdom does not
descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. 16 For
where envy and
self-seeking exist,
confusion and every evil thing are there.
17 But
the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full
of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. 18 Now
the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.
What we just read is a Divinely inspired description
of wisdom from above (verses 13 and 17-18), with, wisdom from
below, juxtaposed smack dab in the middle.
If we could paint a picture of what we just read it’d
be of Eden.
Created by Wisdom from above, full of good
fruits, sown in peace by Him who makes peace.
Smack dab in the middle of the Garden would be
the serpent, filled with bitter envy and self-seeking, earthly, sensual,
demonic and every evil thing.
With those descriptions of wisdom from above, and
below, the Lord makes the answer obvious:
Who is wise and understanding among you?
Answer:
Those who have wisdom from above.
And we also know that those who have pure,
peaceable, gentle wisdom from above are not where
wars and fights come from.
Thus, wars and fights come from those who do not
have wisdom from above.
Now, notice the repeated words that describe wisdom
from below: envy and self-seeking.
With that in mind consider that in the NKJV, “you”
is mentioned fourteen times in the first five verses of today’s text (James
4:1-4). Not as many in the original text, but the envious self-seeking focus
is clear.
Where do wars and fights come from among you?
Originally? From Eden, the moment Adam and Eve took
that first self-seeking bite.
Now? James tells us to look in the mirror.
Where
do wars and fights come from among you?
Do they not come from your desires for pleasure
that war in your members?
2 You lust and do not
have. You murder and covet
and cannot obtain. You fight and war.
Yet you do not have because you do not ask.
You lust... the
lust of the flesh. If only I had a girl, a guy, a wife, a husband, a
relationship, like that. So, you commit adultery with them in your heart.
You murder and covet... the
lust of the eyes. You want what’s theirs, the house,
the car, the camper, the job, the parking spot. So, you murder them in your
heart.
You fight and war... Like
a sword your tongue lashes out from a heart of bitter envy.
You do not ask... the
pride of life. Pride refuses to admit you need help.
1
John 2:15-17
Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world,
the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the
world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is
not of the Father but is of the world. 17 And the world is passing
away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.
3 You ask and do not receive, because you ask
amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.
God is good.
God is a giver.
God is not an enabler.
The guy in the parking lot says “Since I got laid off,
times are tough. I just need a little money for diapers and baby food.”
Without paying attention or praying for discernment we
hand him a $20 or so, while God’s saying “No, they ask amiss, they’re just
going to blow it beer and cigarettes.”
Asking, praying, is such an extraordinary thing. It’s
like a superpower.
Jesus says:
Matthew 7:7
Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will
be opened to you.
Matthew 7:11
If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much
more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!
Matthew 21:22
And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.
Mark 11:24
Therefore I say to
you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe
that you receive them, and you will have them.
John 15:7
If you abide in Me, and My
words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall
be done for you.
James 1:5
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask
of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be
given to him.
This brings us back to the first question about
beautiful, wonderful wisdom from above.
How do we get it?
Ask of God who gives to all...
But remember, we must not ask amiss.
We must ask, in faith...
James 1:6-7
But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is
like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. 7 For let not
that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;
How do we ask in faith?
Romans 10:17
So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God
(Christos).
Prayer is powerful.
Asking is amazing.
But must not be handled amiss.
We just quoted Matthew 7:7 above.
Ask, and it will be given; seek, and you
will find; knock, and it will be opened.
But do you know the verse before it?
Matthew 7:6
Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest
they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces.
Prayer must not be cast about flippantly.
It’s a mighty weapon.
For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5.
In the Garden of Gethsemane Jesus prayed earnestly, fervently, He even prayed to not ask amiss. Not My will but Thine be done. Luke 22:42.
He told His disciples to pray so that they would not enter
into temptation.
What a powerful privilege and responsibility we have
in prayer.
How do we ask accurately, pray powerfully,
know that we’re not asking, amiss?
Well, our text told us that motives matter. Are we
committing adultery of the heart? Why are we asking? Why are we praying? To consume
it upon our lust? Are we asking amiss. For beer and cigarettes, instead of baby
food and diapers?
Pray what Jesus prayed. “Not My will but Thine.”
As far as asking accurately and praying powerfully, we
must invest time with Him until we are each other’s friend.
The kind of friend where you know how they will
respond, how they’ll answer, how they’ll feel about any given situation.
Do you have a friend like that? Your spouse?
Jesus wants that, with you.
John 15:15
No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master
is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that
I heard from My Father I have made known to you.
Which brings us to the
next verse.
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Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the
world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the
world makes himself an enemy of God.
We were just talking about the Lord’s desire to be
your friend, a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
A friend indeed, even more.
His Bride.
Note: the original text omits “Adulterers and.”
It only says, “adulteresses.” Revealing the Lord is not talking about
physical adultery but adultery of the heart against Him.
The Church, in His eyes, is His Bride.
Dear family, pay attention.
God is so serious about this that out of 1,189
chapters, 31,102 verses, He Divinely timed that we would land in back-to-back
services on Scripture focused on this topic. Idols of the Heart, Ezekiel
14:1-11 and Adultery
of the Heart, James 4:1-6.
If you scoffed in your heart and said, the preacher’s too
melodramatic.
Hurry repent before we read the next verse...
5
Or do you think that the Scripture
says in vain, “The Spirit who dwells in us yearns jealously”?
Exodus 20:3-5
FIRST COMMANDMENT: 3 “You shall
have no other gods before Me.
SECOND COMMANDMENT: 4 “You shall
not make for yourself a carved image—any likeness of
anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the
earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; 5 you
shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the LORD your
God am a jealous God...
Ezekiel 8:5. Then He said to me, “Son of man, lift your eyes now toward
the north.” So I lifted my eyes toward the north, and there, north of the
altar gate, was this image of jealousy in the entrance.
Hopefully, you’ll never know the pain of your spouse
cheating, rejecting, leaving you.
They say that pain and grief is akin to if your spouse
dies, but with the added pain of rejection.
That is the kind of pain inflicted on the Lord when we
commit spiritual adultery with the world.
Now, if you’re feeling awful because you’ve committed adultery
of the heart, or because you just scoffed at the preacher, or you’re afraid you’ve
been asking amiss...
Don’t fear. God know how you feel and has great news
for you.
6
But He gives more grace. Therefore He says:
“God
resists the proud,
But
gives grace to the humble.”
Grace, as opposed to disgrace, is honor.
Not just grace once for Salvation, but more grace,
because God knows we need more, daily, for our hearts are desperately wicked.
(Jer. 17:9).
God gives grace to the humble for they see their need and
are not too proud to ask, and will not ask amiss.
Let’s pray.
Lord Jesus, thank You for Your amazing
grace that is greater than all our sin. Thank You for grace to submit to You,
resist the devil, forsake all worldly lust and pleasure. Lord Jesus, we invite
You to take Your rightful place on the throne of our heart. We choose You as
our Best Friend. Thank You for the honor of being Your Bride. Have Your Way through
us, so of all those You’ve given us, none will be lost.
We love You, forever.
Amen.
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